Own it. live it. love it.

Fan : I was wondering if you … if Ian was Elena’s dad on the show, would you give her as much freedom as being with, like, the Salvatore brothers and vampires and all that situation?

Ian : Wait, if I was what?

thequeenofdrama:

#he’s so honest lmao #he doesnt even care if he hurts her feelings with it #but her feelings dont get hurt #so it doesnt matter #Elena knows that Damon will always be honest with her #no matter what #thats why they fit#because honestly #no one else would point out what shes doing like that #he does it because he loves her #and its because he loves her #that he’s honest with her#he can’t just coddle her #and treat her like shes four #he treats her like an adult#like the woman he knows she is #and because of this #she fights him #she fights him because even though he’s being honest and that he thinks enough of her to be honest with her #she still feels like she has a lot to prove to him #a lot to prove to everyone #she has to prove that she can do things on her own #its really important for her to not only prove this to everyone #but even more importantly prove it to herself

katerinawesley:

stelena | always